Have you ever wondered why and there are men who surrender all their power, and sometimes even their prestige, to women for sex?
What majority of men fail to realize (or simply are not aware of) are that women are finely attuned to and dangerously attentive of the male psyche – they know how we think, what our behaviors signify and most importantly, they know what we desire – especially when it comes to women!
There are men who tend to run after women in their desperate (and almost reckless) attempts to get to know them better and more intimately, totally unaware and ignorant that in the course of action they are coming on too strong – a characteristic which women don’t want and dislike intensely. The reason is very simple women do not like men who grovel at their feet!
It’s actually a catch-22 situation in reverse – the more you desire, the less you get; the less you desire, the more you get!
Why the seeming antithesis? If you try too hard, you tend to become high-strung (and almost neurotic) and have a tendency to go over the top in doing normal things which women see as trying too hard. On the other hand, if you just get together and banter with them casually and so matter-of-factly, you will definitely appear relaxed and become more desirable in their eyes. The result? Women would then immediately get attracted to you because you don’t intimidate or turn them off with your pleadings; they automatically begin to be more interested in you and they perceive you as a prey instead of as a predator!
However, it takes awareness and time to get this kind of attitude since you can’t just change your behavior at the bat of an eyelash. You have to understand that you have to cultivate patience and wait for the perfect time before making your strike – in the meanwhile, you have to sacrifice your immediate need for satisfaction and fulfillment until the proper time comes. Once you are able to master this, and women do not see you anymore as a predator to be wary of who is interested only in getting them into bed, then they will feel at ease in your company. This in turn gives you the perfect opportunity and a better chance of starting a relationship with those women that draws your interest.
Although this may seem easy just reading it, it takes constant practice of being with women and coming on as someone who’s not a threat to their existence. Depending on your personality type, it may take months (sometimes even years) before you can acquire this type of non-aggressive and non-predatory behavior. However no matter how long it takes you, the time is definitely well spent. Because while preparing yourself for the big battle, you are at the same time able to polish and hone your techniques to the sharpest resulting in more dates and relationships than you can handle.